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How ACT might change the story about addiction to fossil fuels
How can ACT help reduce excessive consumption of fossil fuels? In this blog, the third and probably last in my series on ACT and environmental change, I want to critique an economist’s view of behavioural change and argue that ACT … Continue reading
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Understanding the Real You
As a psychologist, many clients want me to help them understand themselves better. Who am I? Who is the ‘real’ me? How do I become more like the real me? And because I am all seeing and knowing, I am … Continue reading
ACT and conscious evolution Part A: Why cant we get our act together to respond to global change?
We live on a planet completely transformed by humanity. Our impacts upon the planet are so great that scientists have now coined a term for a new geological age – the Anthropocene. We are changing the climate, the chemical balance … Continue reading
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Tagged Behavior Change, Global change, Values and Behaviour
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When Feeling Awkward Gets In The Way Of Change
Have you ever wanted to try something new but because it felt awkward you backed away from the change and went back to what felt more comfortable, even though part of you really wanted to persist with the change? I … Continue reading
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Tagged Behavior Change, Handling Difficult Thoughts, Values and Behaviour, Willingness
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(How to) Stay on The F*****G Bus
I recently came across Helsinki bus theory, an interesting metaphor by the photographer Arno Minkinnen which is usually applied to creativity. Being a big fan of bus metaphors, I started using it with my coaching clients and it resonates, so … Continue reading
The Dangers of Language
“So, how do you feel?” “I feel like I’m grinding through life, sort of like I’m pushing a heavy boulder uphill. Every day I’m grinding forward, but it feels relentless.” “So how does this feeling of ‘grinding’ actually show up … Continue reading
Closing the intention-behaviour gap
Over Christmas I put on an additional 3kg. I have been getting rid of it ever since and I have realised that losing weight is a fantastic practice in psychological flexibility. Just about every minute of the day there are … Continue reading
The Different Motivational Properties of Values and Goals
When committing to a new course of action it’s useful to distinguish between values and goals because they have different motivational properties. Goals can be achieved. This is why they motivate – we enjoy the feeling of purpose and progress … Continue reading
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Training People To Do What You Want – Ethically
There is an episode of The Big Bang Theory where Sheldon trains Penny to do what he wants. He uses chocolate. We are all constantly ‘training’ the people around us but we don’t usually use chocolates and it is rarely … Continue reading
How You Can Make 2013 A Successful Year
So here we are in 2013. What will it take for you to define this year as successful? Let’s start by looking back on 2012. What did you achieve? What mistakes did you make? Where do you feel you failed? … Continue reading